Are you a determined and ambitious woman making progress in your career but feeling like there's something holding you back that you can't really see? Uncover how being professional might be quietly stopping you from reaching your full potential.
The Unintentional Professional Image
Your communication is direct, focused, and solution-oriented—straight to the point, no unnecessary details. But, you've received feedback about being perceived as "tough" and "cold.” Hearing that, you keep a "professional" face, holding back your sensitive and caring side.
Remember: Your no-nonsense approach is a unique strength! It’s so important to point this out! It’s just about unblocking the full potential; we’ll get back to this later.
I understand that your communication style is focused on efficiency and getting results, being direct and avoiding unnecessary details. Been there: "Jana, you’re a tough cookie. You’re so serious." I did not understand where that came from and why people said that. It bothered me.
The important essential that I did not realize:
I was not aware of the professional image I unintentionally showed.
Many female leaders experience this challenge: Your professional behavior on the outside doesn't match your hidden warm and caring nature.
It's time to notice if you're automatically switching to a serious and all-knowing mode at work without realizing it.
1) Balancing Communication
Balancing between oversharing and being reserved is an art. You've got the intuition to find your sweet spot. Trust yourself to find the great balance in your communication style.
2) Work with Your Emotional Intelligence
Consider the importance of feelings, whether positive or tough; they are important for a meaningful and successful career. If you're unconsciously suppressing emotions to seem "professional," you could be overlooking valuable information that could help you navigate challenges. Emotions are your strengths and power, not a weakness.
3) The Ambitious Woman’s Dilemma
Have you seen times when you're so focused on showing what you can do that you end up handling projects on your own? As a committed woman working towards your goals, there's a chance you might accidentally be distancing yourself from the team. Being the ambitious woman you are is wonderful; remember to trust yourself to lead without isolating!
Recognizing these little things in how you act and becoming self aware is the first step to step out of the professional trap.
You have everything it takes to redefine your conscious success on your terms.
Embrace your straightforward style and also take control.
Trust yourself to decide when to let the authenticity be louder than the pro-mode.